Romantic Novelists' Association

In conversation with Ella Cook for Disability Pride Month

30 July 2025

The disability pride flag. It features muted diagonal stripes across a black background. The colours of the stripes are (from left to right): red, gold, white, blue, green.

As you may already know, July is Disability Pride Month, designed to uplift the voices of people with disabilities from all walks of life. We’ve already taken a look at some amazing books with disabled characters from our RNA authors, and today we’re thrilled to introduce Ella Cook to the blog to talk about disability representation, how living with an invisible disability has impacted her writing career, and how to write disabled characters thoughtfully.

A photo of a person writing at a table, with a cup in the background.

We are delighted that you could join us for Disability Pride Month. As an Own Voices author, how has living with a disability impacted your writing career?

I have to admit, it can be really tricky. Like about 80% of people in the UK living with disabling conditions, mine are considered “invisible”, so you won’t see my additional challenges by looking at me. There have been times I’ve had to rely on aids like crutches, or I’ve ended up in a wheelchair while healing, which bring their own challenges – but for the most part I look “normal” (as much as I dislike the word, it’s an easy shorthand), which means I had to learn to advocate for myself quite loudly at times.

Because I’m not “normal”. The conditions I have (hypermobility disorder, fibromyalgia, bipolar among others) can make “normal” things a lot more difficult. I have to manage my energy really carefully, and things like travelling, attending events and being active in writing circles is a lot harder because I have to consider time afterwards to recover too – and no, I don’t mean hangovers lol! But, though I laugh, it is tricky because it means I don’t always get the same networking opportunities that authors without these challenges do.

And when every part of your body aches, and you feel like you haven’t slept in a fortnight and your head is foggy, focus can be a lot harder than on “good” days.

 

Can you tell us what you think about disability representation in books, especially romance books? 

This might be something of a loaded answer, so you might want to brace yourself!

With the exception of a few standouts, I think it’s generally not great, across the whole of media and fiction (not just books). Don’t get me wrong, things have gotten a lot better, but I think we’re still too often very much in a position where often the disability is made the main characteristic – or driving force – for our leads. Think Detective Adrian Monk (one of my favourite series by the way) who is a brilliant and lovable, but bumbling and desperately-in-need-of-help-just-to-get-through-the-day character. Or it’s made a comedic factor like “look at the crazy, funny things they do.” Or the character becomes “inspirational”.

But that’s not reality: yes, there’s humour to be found (for me, it’s a big coping strategy), but I don’t consider myself particularly inspirational or bumbling… though I do have a habit of walking into doors or knocking things over when I’m tired. I’m not even sure I’m that funny. It’s just life and that’s what I don’t always see reflected: that it is just “normal”.

A couple (a woman and a man) laugh and play on the beach at sunset. He pushes her in a wheelchair while she laughs and holds her hand in the air.

 

What advice would you give to somebody who wants to include more disabled characters in their writing?

Do it with kindness and sensitivity, and please, please avoid tokenism. What I mean by this is don’t just shove in a disabled character to try and tick a box. Ask yourself why you’re writing this character with whatever condition or challenges you’re including, and what relevance it has to the story. If you can’t explain it to yourself (or agent, publisher, beta readers etc.) then maybe consider spending some more time thinking about your motives. Or just don’t do it.

To write about more disabled characters well, I believe you have to write with authenticity. I’ve never set out deliberately to write about disability – or mental illness, which should be included in Pride Disability Month discussions – and it’s not a primary theme in any of my books. But it is a part of life for a lot of people, and I therefore think should be featured.

So, from someone with conditions that aren’t immediately visible but do impact my daily life, and which can be dis-enabling… here’s my advice and pleas on writing it well:

[Editorial note: as if to prove Ella’s point, the image used for this section shows a medical/hospital wheelchair – not the sort someone is likely to use in daily life – but I was unable to find one that’s more accurate and shows a happy couple. Even stock images have poor represenation!] 

 

What does a typical day look like for you?

In honesty, a lot of them start of like Imogen’s in Midnight Rainbows over the Little Village. I don’t always know when I wake up if it’s going to be a good day or a bad day… how much energy, focus or pain I’m going to have.

So I start slowly – usually with a cup of tea made by my partner (who gets up earlier than me) – and stretching. I have lots of physio activities and exercises I have to do to keep myself moving, then I have my day job (I’m a full-time Business Development Writer).

Then, after I’ve made dinner (with the help lots of shortcuts and clever kitchen gadgets) I try to settle down and write. If I’m struggling with foggy brain syndrome, I’ll make a few notes for when I can think clearer. Or I’ll do something unimportant to the plot. Or edit some previous pages. I also have a lot of lists and tables when I’m writing to keep track of key information and plot timelines, and to try and keep myself a bit clearer!

 

Please tell us about your book(s).

There’s the Broclington series which is up-lit romcoms, with a sparkle of magic. The series comprises of 4 books (so far!) and includes Midnight Rainbows over the Little Village. Rainbows is Imogen’s story, who has invisible disabilities very similar to my own.

There’s also my first (hopefully of many!) standalone novel Life After Me which is “an emotional and uplifting romance about love and loss and healing”. It’s a contemporary romance with a big twist. And, because it does deal with some very heavy themes like bereavement and grief, it does also discuss depression. But, because it’s me, I promise there’s hope too.

Ella Cook's author logo, which shows a book opened to the middle with stars, hearts and butterflies flying from the pages.

How has being in the RNA helped you with your publishing journey?

I’m very new to the RNA – so I’m hoping it will help me grow as a writer. I’ve already met some lovely people and am looking forward to meeting more (hopefully, and with lots of planning!)

 

Can you tell us what you are working on now?

Of course! I love talking WiPs. I’ve got an amazing new rom-com series featuring a neuro-diverse lead that’s looking for a home, another rom-com series which is a spicier version of Broclington, and there’s a few more standalone weepies – which I think will be my priority this year as my editor is a fan of my “ability to really make people cry”.

 

Let’s share the love! Can you recommend one other book with disability representation that you’ve read and tell us what you enjoyed about it?

I’m going to have to go old school on this one, and say I really loved The Rosie Project. It’s more neurodiversity than disability when it comes to representation – but it’s still one I loved. And I think neurodiversity is an important discussion to include during Disability Pride month because without the right support, neurodiversity can lead to dis-enablement.

A photo of author Ella Cook. She wears a floral patterned shirt and is shown opening a book while confetti flutters around her.

About Ella Cook

Ella’s been obsessed with books since the moment she could reach to pull them off the shelf by herself, and has wanted to write for as long as she can remember.

She grew up in London where fairies lived at the bottom of her Grandma’s garden, and she still looks for magic – and often finds it – in everyday life. She doesn’t shy away from writing about the harder things in life, and isn’t afraid to weave her own lived experiences of hidden disabilities and mental health challenges into her stories.

She won the SWWJ Floella Benjamin Award in 2019, and published her debut, in 2021. Her books are now published by Joffe Books, and she doesn’t plan to stop writing any time soon.

When she emerges from her fictional worlds, she writes bids for children’s services and lives in Warwickshire (where there are probably more fairies) with her ever-loving husband who reads all her stories first and makes gallons of tea in magical cups that keep drinks warm for whole chapters.

You can learn more about Ella and find links to where you can find her on social media here!

The disability pride flag. It features muted diagonal stripes across a black background. The colours of the stripes are (from left to right): red, gold, white, blue, green.

Celebrating Disability Pride with the RNA

To celebrate Disability Pride Month, we’ve put together a selection of some fantastic romance books by RNA members which feature disabled characters.